You saw the billboard.
Now take the quiz that helps couples grow, heal, and move forward.At Marriage Works, we’ve helped thousands of engaged, newlywed, and long-time married couples build stronger relationships through practical and faith-rooted courses and coaching.The Marriage Source Quiz shows which direction your relationship is heading—toward unity or isolation—and how to move forward with clarity and connection.
Your responses identify you as an:
OBSERVER
You’ve made it through a lot and haven’t walked away. You’re cautious but hopeful, watching to see if this season could finally change.
Your Source
You're operating mostly from a default story. You feel disconnected or resigned, unsure whether it’s worth the effort to stay engaged when things don’t seem to change.
Your Automatic Response
You often wait or pull back. Even when you have something to give, it feels safer to stay quiet or keep your distance.
Where It Shows Up
Your spouse might not even notice you’ve disengaged, but you know you’re not bringing your full self to the relationship anymore.
What Missing
Real connection requires presence. Without showing up, your spouse doesn’t get to know the deeper parts of you that matter most.
What's Possible
Your presence makes a difference. Even small efforts to stay engaged can create moments of honesty and trust that help rebuild unity over time.
Your Next Move
Choose one place to re-engage today. Start a conversation, make an offer, or do a good deed without waiting for it to feel perfect or normal.
Shifting Your Source
You don’t change a marriage by fixing behavior. You change it by choosing your source.Shifting Your Source is a 7-day experience that helps you live from your Commitment instead of your Default Story, one honest moment at a time.
Each day brings 3 insights, 2 questions, and 1 action. Simple reflections that help you see clearly, choose your Commitment, and build unity.
What It IsOver seven days, you’ll get guided reflections you can read in under a minute. Each one helps you notice what’s happening, ask what’s needed, and take one small action that strengthens connection.
(Available via text or email)
Real change begins when you stop reacting from your Default Story and start living from your Commitment.
Still Curious?
Want to see more about the framework that shaped your results? These resources will help you understand how the Marriage Source Model works and why it changes the way couples grow together.
Your responses identify you as an:
PEACEMAKER
You often avoid tension to keep things steady. You care deeply, but your silence may be creating distance instead of peace.
Your Source
You’re trying to keep the peace. That’s coming from a default story that says conflict makes things worse. But avoiding it holds back the depth your relationship really needs.
Your Automatic Response
You stay quiet, sidestep issues, or smooth things over. You may feel unheard, but you often don’t speak up about what really matters.
Where It Shows Up
Things look calm on the surface, but emotional connection feels shallow. You often sense something missing but can’t name it clearly.
What Missing
Avoiding conflict keeps things polite, but honesty—even when it’s uncomfortable—is what creates real closeness.
What's Possible
You can still care about peace and show up with truth. Your voice matters, especially when spoken with care and courage.
Your Next Move
Say one true thing that you've been sitting on. Begin with care, but don’t water it down to avoid discomfort.
Shifting Your Source
You don’t change a marriage by fixing behavior. You change it by choosing your source.Shifting Your Source is a 7-day experience that helps you live from your Commitment instead of your Default Story, one honest moment at a time.
Each day brings 3 insights, 2 questions, and 1 action. Simple reflections that help you see clearly, choose your Commitment, and build unity.
What It IsOver seven days, you’ll get guided reflections you can read in under a minute. Each one helps you notice what’s happening, ask what’s needed, and take one small action that strengthens connection.
(Available via text or email)
Real change begins when you stop reacting from your Default Story and start living from your Commitment.
Still Curious?
Want to see more about the framework that shaped your results? These resources will help you understand how the Marriage Source Model works and why it changes the way couples grow together.
Your responses identify you as a:
DOER
You act fast and try hard, but doing more won’t always lead to unity. Without clarity, your effort may feel unbalanced or misaligned.
Your Source
You're wired for action. When things feel off, your first move is to fix it. That drive comes from both commitment and a default story that says staying busy keeps things okay.
Your Automatic Response
You plan, talk solutions, and stay busy—often without slowing down long enough to tune into how you both feel.
Where It Shows Up
You’re putting in effort, but it can feel one-sided. You may feel frustrated that your spouse isn’t matching your pace.
What Missing
Fixing things isn’t the same as building intimacy. You may miss emotional connection in the push to make progress.
What's Possible
You can lead with care, not just control. When your effort includes listening, it draws your spouse into shared ownership.
Your Next Move
Take a breath. Ask one real question, then wait. Let what’s said guide what comes next.
Shifting Your Source
You don’t change a marriage by fixing behavior. You change it by choosing your source.Shifting Your Source is a 7-day experience that helps you live from your Commitment instead of your Default Story, one honest moment at a time.
Each day brings 3 insights, 2 questions, and 1 action. Simple reflections that help you see clearly, choose your Commitment, and build unity.
What It IsOver seven days, you’ll get guided reflections you can read in under a minute. Each one helps you notice what’s happening, ask what’s needed, and take one small action that strengthens connection.
(Available via text or email)
Real change begins when you stop reacting from your Default Story and start living from your Commitment.
Still Curious?
Want to see more about the framework that shaped your results? These resources will help you understand how the Marriage Source Model works and why it changes the way couples grow together.
Your responses identify you as a:
CONNECTOR
You show up with presence and care. You create space for both voices, even when it’s hard. This is what trust starts to feel like.
Your Source
You’re showing up from commitment with intention. You’re not perfect, but you’re making space for truth, listening, and shared effort.
What You Tend To Do
You engage with honesty. You slow down to hear what matters and speak in ways that invite trust.
Where It Shows Up
Your spouse likely feels seen and heard. Conversations may still be hard, but they feel safer and more grounded.
What You're Practicing
Letting go of control, blame, and hiding. You show up with your voice and invite your spouse to do the same.
What's Possible
As trust builds, so does unity. You’re becoming a safe place, and that creates momentum even when things feel messy.
Your Next Move
Stay steady. You’re doing important work even when it feels slow or unseen.
Shifting Your Source
You don’t change a marriage by fixing behavior. You change it by choosing your source.Shifting Your Source is a 7-day experience that helps you live from your Commitment instead of your Default Story, one honest moment at a time.
Each day brings 3 insights, 2 questions, and 1 action. Simple reflections that help you see clearly, choose your Commitment, and build unity.
What It IsOver seven days, you’ll get guided reflections you can read in under a minute. Each one helps you notice what’s happening, ask what’s needed, and take one small action that strengthens connection.
(Available via text or email)
Real change begins when you stop reacting from your Default Story and start living from your Commitment.
Still Curious?
Want to see more about the framework that shaped your results? These resources will help you understand how the Marriage Source Model works and why it changes the way couples grow together.
Your responses identify you as a:
BUILDER
You lead from commitment. You act on purpose, not reaction. Your consistency builds trust, which invites your spouse to grow with you.
Your Source
You lead from commitment. Your choices are rooted in who you want to be, not just how you feel in the moment.
What You Tend To Do
You move forward intentionally. You name hard truths, ask questions, and take action even when it’s uncomfortable.
Where It Shows Up
There’s movement, growth, and visible investment in your marriage. You bring clarity and follow-through.
What You're Practicing
Consistency. You don’t just react, you create. You shape your marriage through presence, effort, and thoughtful leadership.
What's Possible
A deeper unity built on mutual trust, shared direction, and the confidence that you’re both in it for the long haul.
Your Next Move
Keep showing up on purpose, and continue your practice of caring for yourself so you can keep acting from your commitment.
Shifting Your Source
You don’t change a marriage by fixing behavior. You change it by choosing your source.Shifting Your Source is a 7-day experience that helps you live from your Commitment instead of your Default Story, one honest moment at a time.
Each day brings 3 insights, 2 questions, and 1 action. Simple reflections that help you see clearly, choose your Commitment, and build unity.
What It IsOver seven days, you’ll get guided reflections you can read in under a minute. Each one helps you notice what’s happening, ask what’s needed, and take one small action that strengthens connection.
(Available via text or email)
Real change begins when you stop reacting from your Default Story and start living from your Commitment.
Still Curious?
Want to see more about the framework that shaped your results? These resources will help you understand how the Marriage Source Model works and why it changes the way couples grow together.
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Learn about the Marriage Source Model
The Marriage Source Model (MSM) is the framework behind your quiz results. It helps you name the patterns in how you show up in your marriage, and what can shift to move from isolation to unity in your relationship..You’ve got two ways to explore the model below:
1. Brief Overview (2 minutes)
What it is. Why it matters.
A quick walk-through of the Marriage Source Model: the sources, behaviors, and destinations. Ideal if you're short on time or just getting started.▶️ Listen to the Brief Overview
2. Deep Dive (15 minutes)
How it works. How to use it.
This fuller teaching explains each part of the model in detail. You’ll hear practical examples, how to spot your default story, and how to use the model in everyday marriage moments.▶️ Listen to the Deep Dive
Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
Your responses identify you as a:
DOER
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
📧 What happens next:
In a few minutes, you’ll get an email from us that includes a special link to your full results page where you’ll see your profile and next steps.
If you don’t see the email, please check your junk or spam folder, and be sure to whitelist [email protected].
We’re excited for you to dive in and discover what’s possible in your marriage.
Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
Your responses identify you as a:
PEACEMAKER
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
📧 What happens next:
In a few minutes, you’ll get an email from us that includes a special link to your full results page where you’ll see your profile and next steps.
If you don’t see the email, please check your junk or spam folder, and be sure to whitelist [email protected].
We’re excited for you to dive in and discover what’s possible in your marriage.
Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
Your responses identify you as a:
BUILDER
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
📧 What happens next:
In a few minutes, you’ll get an email from us that includes a special link to your full results page where you’ll see your profile and next steps.
If you don’t see the email, please check your junk or spam folder, and be sure to whitelist [email protected].
We’re excited for you to dive in and discover what’s possible in your marriage.
Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
Your responses identify you as a:
OBSERVER
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
📧 What happens next:
In a few minutes, you’ll get an email from us that includes a special link to your full results page where you’ll see your profile and next steps.
If you don’t see the email, please check your junk or spam folder, and be sure to whitelist [email protected].
We’re excited for you to dive in and discover what’s possible in your marriage.
Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
Your responses identify you as a:
CONNECTOR
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
📧 What happens next:
In a few minutes, you’ll get an email from us that includes a special link to your full results page where you’ll see your profile and next steps.
If you don’t see the email, please check your junk or spam folder, and be sure to whitelist [email protected].
We’re excited for you to dive in and discover what’s possible in your marriage.