Where Is Your Marriage Headed: Isolation or Unity?
Most couples don’t know the direction until it’s too late. This short guide will help you check the signs and take a first step toward unity.
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Now take the free Marriage Source quiz to find out whether your marriage is moving toward isolation or unity, and the steps you can take to reconnect and grow.
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Marriage Source Quiz Results
Your responses identify you as an:
OBSERVER
You’ve made it through a lot and haven’t walked away. You’re cautious but hopeful, watching to see if this season could finally change.
Your Source
You're operating mostly from a default story. You feel disconnected or resigned, unsure whether it’s worth the effort to stay engaged when things don’t seem to change.
Your Automatic Response
You often wait or pull back. Even when you have something to give, it feels safer to stay quiet or keep your distance.
Where It Shows Up
Your spouse might not even notice you’ve disengaged, but you know you’re not bringing your full self to the relationship anymore.
What Missing
Real connection requires presence. Without showing up, your spouse doesn’t get to know the deeper parts of you that matter most.
What's Possible
Your presence makes a difference. Even small efforts to stay engaged can create moments of honesty and trust that help rebuild unity over time.
Your Next Move
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What They're Saying
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— Annie, North Carolina
“Day 2 hit me hard. I didn’t realize how much I was living in my own story without checking what was true. This gave me language I didn’t have before.”
— Mark, Georgia
“I’ve done books and counseling before. This was different. Small, real steps that don’t overwhelm you. And the audio made it easy to stick with.”
— JR, Texas
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Marriage Source Quiz Results
Your responses identify you as an:
PEACEMAKER
You often avoid tension to keep things steady. You care deeply, but your silence may be creating distance instead of peace.
Your Source
You’re trying to keep the peace. That’s coming from a default story that says conflict makes things worse. But avoiding it holds back the depth your relationship really needs.
Your Automatic Response
You stay quiet, sidestep issues, or smooth things over. You may feel unheard, but you often don’t speak up about what really matters.
Where It Shows Up
Things look calm on the surface, but emotional connection feels shallow. You often sense something missing but can’t name it clearly.
What Missing
Avoiding conflict keeps things polite, but honesty—even when it’s uncomfortable—is what creates real closeness.
What's Possible
You can still care about peace and show up with truth. Your voice matters, especially when spoken with care and courage.
Your Next Move
Say one true thing that you've been sitting on. Begin with care, but don’t water it down to avoid discomfort.
Love Reset Bundle
Get two (2) Marriage Works! Wristbands + the Four Stages of Love teaching audio + Conversation Starter Guide.
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In this practical talk, Kevin explains how every marriage moves from romance → power struggle → cooperation → co-creativity, and how to shift from reacting to what’s wrong to building from your commitment.
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What They're Saying
“This report helped me stop spinning in frustration. I actually know what to work on now, without waiting on my spouse to do something first.”
— Annie, North Carolina
“Day 2 hit me hard. I didn’t realize how much I was living in my own story without checking what was true. This gave me language I didn’t have before.”
— Mark, Georgia
“I’ve done books and counseling before. This was different. Small, real steps that don’t overwhelm you. And the audio made it easy to stick with.”
— JR, Texas
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Marriage Source Quiz Results
Your responses identify you as a:
DOER
You act fast and try hard, but doing more won’t always lead to unity. Without clarity, your effort may feel unbalanced or misaligned.
Your Source
You're wired for action. When things feel off, your first move is to fix it. That drive comes from both commitment and a default story that says staying busy keeps things okay.
Your Automatic Response
You plan, talk solutions, and stay busy—often without slowing down long enough to tune into how you both feel.
Where It Shows Up
You’re putting in effort, but it can feel one-sided. You may feel frustrated that your spouse isn’t matching your pace.
What Missing
Fixing things isn’t the same as building intimacy. You may miss emotional connection in the push to make progress.
What's Possible
You can lead with care, not just control. When your effort includes listening, it draws your spouse into shared ownership.
Your Next Move
Take a breath. Ask one real question, then wait. Let what’s said guide what comes next.
Love Reset Bundle
Get two (2) Marriage Works! Wristbands + the Four Stages of Love teaching audio + Conversation Starter Guide.
The Four Stages of Love
In this practical talk, Kevin explains how every marriage moves from romance → power struggle → cooperation → co-creativity, and how to shift from reacting to what’s wrong to building from your commitment.
Marriage Works! Wristbands
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What They're Saying
“This report helped me stop spinning in frustration. I actually know what to work on now, without waiting on my spouse to do something first.”
— Annie, North Carolina
“Day 2 hit me hard. I didn’t realize how much I was living in my own story without checking what was true. This gave me language I didn’t have before.”
— Mark, Georgia
“I’ve done books and counseling before. This was different. Small, real steps that don’t overwhelm you. And the audio made it easy to stick with.”
— JR, Texas
FAQ
Can I choose the color?
Colors vary by batch; each carries the same message: Marriage Works.
How do I get the audio?
You’ll get a private link immediately after checkout.
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💬 No Risk. All Growth.
If the Love Reset Bundle doesn’t help you take a real step forward, just reply to the delivery email within 30 days and we'll send your money back. No questions asked.
Marriage Source Quiz Results
Your responses identify you as a:
CONNECTOR
You show up with presence and care. You create space for both voices, even when it’s hard. This is what trust starts to feel like.
Your Source
You’re showing up from commitment with intention. You’re not perfect, but you’re making space for truth, listening, and shared effort.
What You Tend To Do
You engage with honesty. You slow down to hear what matters and speak in ways that invite trust.
Where It Shows Up
Your spouse likely feels seen and heard. Conversations may still be hard, but they feel safer and more grounded.
What You're Practicing
Letting go of control, blame, and hiding. You show up with your voice and invite your spouse to do the same.
What's Possible
As trust builds, so does unity. You’re becoming a safe place, and that creates momentum even when things feel messy.
Your Next Move
Stay steady. You’re doing important work even when it feels slow or unseen.
Love Reset Bundle
Get two (2) Marriage Works! Wristbands + the Four Stages of Love teaching audio + Conversation Starter Guide.
The Four Stages of Love
In this practical talk, Kevin explains how every marriage moves from romance → power struggle → cooperation → co-creativity, and how to shift from reacting to what’s wrong to building from your commitment.
Marriage Works! Wristbands
Each wristband is a visible cue to live from your commitment, not your comfort.
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What They're Saying
“This report helped me stop spinning in frustration. I actually know what to work on now, without waiting on my spouse to do something first.”
— Annie, North Carolina
“Day 2 hit me hard. I didn’t realize how much I was living in my own story without checking what was true. This gave me language I didn’t have before.”
— Mark, Georgia
“I’ve done books and counseling before. This was different. Small, real steps that don’t overwhelm you. And the audio made it easy to stick with.”
— JR, Texas
FAQ
Can I choose the color?
Colors vary by batch; each carries the same message: Marriage Works.
How do I get the audio?
You’ll get a private link immediately after checkout.
Free Shipping
Ships in 3-5 business days
Audio delivered instantly
💬 No Risk. All Growth.
If the Love Reset Bundle doesn’t help you take a real step forward, just reply to the delivery email within 30 days and we'll send your money back. No questions asked.
Marriage Source Quiz Results
Your responses identify you as a:
BUILDER
You lead from commitment. You act on purpose, not reaction. Your consistency builds trust, which invites your spouse to grow with you.
Your Source
You lead from commitment. Your choices are rooted in who you want to be, not just how you feel in the moment.
What You Tend To Do
You move forward intentionally. You name hard truths, ask questions, and take action even when it’s uncomfortable.
Where It Shows Up
There’s movement, growth, and visible investment in your marriage. You bring clarity and follow-through.
What You're Practicing
Consistency. You don’t just react, you create. You shape your marriage through presence, effort, and thoughtful leadership.
What's Possible
A deeper unity built on mutual trust, shared direction, and the confidence that you’re both in it for the long haul.
Your Next Move
Keep showing up on purpose, and continue your practice of caring for yourself so you can keep acting from your commitment.
Love Reset Bundle
Get two (2) Marriage Works! Wristbands + the Four Stages of Love teaching audio + Conversation Starter Guide.
The Four Stages of Love
In this practical talk, Kevin explains how every marriage moves from romance → power struggle → cooperation → co-creativity, and how to shift from reacting to what’s wrong to building from your commitment.
Marriage Works! Wristbands
Each wristband is a visible cue to live from your commitment, not your comfort.
Free Shipping
Ships in 3-5 business days
Audio delivered instantly
What They're Saying
“This report helped me stop spinning in frustration. I actually know what to work on now, without waiting on my spouse to do something first.”
— Annie, North Carolina
“Day 2 hit me hard. I didn’t realize how much I was living in my own story without checking what was true. This gave me language I didn’t have before.”
— Mark, Georgia
“I’ve done books and counseling before. This was different. Small, real steps that don’t overwhelm you. And the audio made it easy to stick with.”
— JR, Texas
FAQ
Can I choose the color?
Colors vary by batch; each carries the same message: Marriage Works.
How do I get the audio?
You’ll get a private link immediately after checkout.
Free Shipping
Ships in 3-5 business days
Audio delivered instantly
💬 No Risk. All Growth.
If the Love Reset Bundle doesn’t help you take a real step forward, just reply to the delivery email within 30 days and we'll send your money back. No questions asked.
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Learn about the Marriage Source Model
The Marriage Source Model (MSM) is the framework behind your quiz results. It helps you name the patterns in how you show up in your marriage, and what can shift to move from isolation to unity in your relationship..You’ve got two ways to explore the model below:
1. Brief Overview (2 minutes)
What it is. Why it matters.
A quick walk-through of the Marriage Source Model: the sources, behaviors, and destinations. Ideal if you're short on time or just getting started.▶️ Listen to the Brief Overview
2. Deep Dive (15 minutes)
How it works. How to use it.
This fuller teaching explains each part of the model in detail. You’ll hear practical examples, how to spot your default story, and how to use the model in everyday marriage moments.▶️ Listen to the Deep Dive
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DOER
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PEACEMAKER
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BUILDER
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OBSERVER
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Thanks For Taking the Quiz!
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CONNECTOR
(You'll see what that means in just a moment)
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Day 1
Name Your Source
Insights
Every marriage flows from a source.
Your behavior is a clue to your marriage source.
You can’t fix behavior until you shift your source.
Questions
When you look at how you’ve been showing up lately, what does that reveal about the source you’re living from, your commitment or your default story?
Instead of trying to fix what’s not working, what new source could you choose that would naturally change how you respond?
Action
Take five minutes tonight to name your current source out loud, then name the one you want to live from this week. Write both down where you’ll see them each day.
Day 2
Slow Down the Story
Insights
A default story feels true, but it’s just familiar.
That story is your brain’s way of staying safe.
Slowing down lets you see your story instead of living inside it.
Questions
What’s been shaping the way you show up lately: default story or commitment?
If you chose commitment today, what would that look like?
Action
Write your default story in one sentence. E.g., “My spouse blames me for everything.”
Day 3
Choose Your Commitment
Insights
Commitment is who you choose to be, not how you feel today.
Feelings change; choice steadies you.
You can’t drift into commitment. You have to choose it.
Questions
Who are you choosing to be in this marriage, regardless of your spouse’s response?
How would your tone or presence change if you lived from that choice?
Action
Say this aloud: “I choose to be a spouse who…” (and live it).
Day 4
Look Before You React
Insights
Unity grows when you look at your part first.
Curiosity disarms defensiveness.
Being right rarely builds closeness.
Questions
What pattern do you see in how you react under pressure?
What might change if you got curious instead of certain?
Action
Before you respond today, ask: “What’s mine to own right now?”
Day 5
Move Closer, Not Away
Insights
Distance feels safe but deepens disconnection.
Moving closer doesn't mean giving in, it means staying open.
One small step can shift the whole tone.
Questions
Where have you been waiting for your spouse to go first?
What would it look like for you to move toward instead of movign away?
Action
Take one small step toward connection, e.g., a text, a touch, or a calm start to a hard talk.
Day 6
Contribute Don't Control
Insights
Control protects comfort; contribution builds connection.
You can’t force unity, but you can create the conditions for it.
You’re responsible for what you bring, not how it’s received.
Questions
What are you trying to manage that isn’t yours to control?
What can you contribute today that reflects who you want to be?
Action
Do one act of care with no expectation in return.
Day 7
Keep Creating Unity
Insights
Unity isn’t found; it’s built.
Drifting always leads to isolation.
Small, steady choices create trust.
Questions
What shift this week felt most natural or most freeing?
What daily habit could help you keep living from commitment?
Action
Commit to one small practice you’ll repeat daily. E.g., pause and rehearse your commitment before you respond.
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